Jen picked me up at California's Youth Lobby Day in 1997,
long-distance relationship, moved in over the summer and then broke up
Tiffany and I dated for two or three weeks, had sex once, and
decided after a while that we weren't having any more chemistry. Mutual
dramaless breakup :-)
*Scott was a trans-identified boydyke at the time,
eventually turned into a close brotherly relationship.
*Ysa had very intense flirting relationship, but I was too shy to
push it as far as we wanted it to go, or at least as far as I wanted it to
go! - I was her first girl and she was the first person I asked
out. Eventually trailed off. first polyamorous relationship - she had a
boyfriend (still does) who was really totally supprotive of us and relaly
nice. Still flirt like crazy.
*Robin and I met a year beforehand when Robin emailed me as a
highschool junior to find out about the Mills
College Lesbian Avengers. We hooked up after MUCH flirting, when he came
as a prospective. First person I ever pinned against a wall and kissed to
pick them up. Another poly relationship - he was dating Aurora, who hated
me because I was a threat (she thought) to her and Robin, even though me
and Robin lived 3,000 miles apart and sort of got together first. Good
long-term, long-distance relationship for a while; now me, Damien, Ian,
and *Katy are ... "special friends" ;-)
Dyke to multigendered bisexual boy to FTM? What were your labels again?
?Elka and I made out a LOT (drunkenly, which is fun) at Kerry's
but then she got all, like, "I don't want a relationship right now so we
need to talk" the next week and I was like, um, ok, neither do I, so
Tranny of unspecified boyscouty flavor.
*Ann - My girlfriend when I wrote this, a Scorpionic intersexed
person. Sort of let her pick me up. We had a long distance relationship
for a while till she moved to Oakland to escape her parents. (at which
Tranny intersexed girlboyfairy.
*Damien - My boyfriend when I wrote this; very
very frankly possessive, so the polyamory thing was hard for a long
time. Complex gender issues - I was his "first boyfriend" despite not
solely identifying as a "boy," and so on.
FTM. Gender: "straight boy," sexuality: "queer/unknown."
*Matt is my current
boyfriend, cute and sweet and hot
and a multiple and loving and.... ultra-yay.
Multi-gendered by virtue of being genderqueer as well as by virtue of
having personalities of various genders.
(sometime i should split that out into the various specific morgans i'm
*Mary/Max who I was in unrequited love with for a while in
between Tiffany and Scott. We're very good
friends, most of the time ;) Max also facilitated one of my favorite
?Stacy was the first woman I ever loved, one of my best friends at
the time, knew her from an online roleplaying game and met her on a trip
to D.C.... Unrequited.
Stacy made me realize I was queer; I first identified as
a lesbian because all the messages I got were that bisexuality was for
who weren't ready to "really" come out yet. Even though i was FIRST in
love (or crushed out) with
?Seth, a very sweet loving femme drama/dance geek, who I
over for year. But he already had a girlfriend.
*Timanna came later. We never actually went on a date, but we had
sex, threesomes, flirted, planned to have way more sex to explore our
boundaries and try new things, and we're physically affectionate now in a
way which was platonic to us but which used to be very confusing to
Damien! (note: now that i've helped morgan write his plato
paper, i realize that platonic is the wrong word in every way. tsk!!)
*Aeryn and *Jason are my entertaining educational tranny threesome,
good flirt- and fuck-buddies.
MTF Androgyne and FTM genderqueer, respectively.